Originally Posted by Locke00000

Well, to follow up. I did a lot of thinking about this, and kinda realized that we were already approaching a point in the relationship where it was going to be all-or-nothing (ie. It will turn into a long-term relationship, or it won't). I realized that the only things I could think about were all the negatives and that they didn't outweigh the positives.

She just left. With all her stuff.

I told her we needed to talk, and I didn't want her to say anthing until I finished. She didn't seem very angry after I told her what I did, but explained that it was a sign of the inevitable, and that we had to call it quits. She agreed, although reluctantly, that it probably wasn't going to work out.

I don't regret the relationship, which is good, and we agreed to stay friends (mainly because we see each other every weekend).

Thanks for helping me realize that it was just the expression of a bigger problem.