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Originally Posted by ktspktsp
chickentribs, you do raise a good point. I guess part of my desire to tell our friend the facts is, aside from my dislike of lying, also due to some passive-agressiveness on the issue. I've decided that I will tell her that it's "our" decision if I have to do so. Since I would not go on with this if Abaya didn't feel OK with it.
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Hey ktspktsp... What a stand-up guy

I can imagine that Abaya's looming trip this summer and the distance issue you guys are managing doesn't make any of this easier for either of you. I've been in a similar situation and all I have to offer is everything I did wrong! I will let you walk me through the right way to get through this when Abaya comes home to you from her trip, deal? Good luck with the new job, too!