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Originally Posted by maleficent
Unless he's a complete moron (and why would you want to be with him if he was) he's not going to throw that away for a fling. Have faith in yourself that right now, at this point in your life, with this particular guy, are worthy of his faithfulness. Whatever happened in the past, you were a different person and they were different guys. -snip- Have faith in yourself that you are worth it.
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Mal, this is what I am also trying to hold on to. Confidence in myself rather than my insecurity (based on real experiences). He has been fighting my insecurities for the last year, and this will just be another proving ground for us. I am trying to take the positive view, even though I appreciate all of you understanding my point of view. It means A LOT to me to hear you guys' words.