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maleficent · 05-23-2005, 01:15 PM

You've got a lot of history with other incidents that would lead you to beleive that bad things might happen. Ask your self one question... Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him? What about your friend?

A less honest person, or a person who was up to something, I wouldn't think would be as honest as he's been. Sounds like he sees her as a friend and nothing more.

Take a look in the mirror. You are a beautiful woman, who is also very intelligent and has a ton of stuff going for her. Unless he's a complete moron (and why would you want to be with him if he was) he's not going to throw that away for a fling. Have faith in yourself that right now, at this point in your life, with this particular guy, are worthy of his faithfulness. Whatever happened in the past, you were a different person and they were different guys.

When you go off to Africa for your wonderful trip, are you going to spend that time wondering and worrying about what he's doing? If you can trust him for 2 1/2 months, give him the benefit of the doubt for a weekend. Have faith in yourself that you are worth it.

05-23-2005, 01:15 PM	#10 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	You've got a lot of history with other incidents that would lead you to beleive that bad things might happen. Ask your self one question... Has he ever given you a reason not to trust him? What about your friend? A less honest person, or a person who was up to something, I wouldn't think would be as honest as he's been. Sounds like he sees her as a friend and nothing more. Take a look in the mirror. You are a beautiful woman, who is also very intelligent and has a ton of stuff going for her. Unless he's a complete moron (and why would you want to be with him if he was) he's not going to throw that away for a fling. Have faith in yourself that right now, at this point in your life, with this particular guy, are worthy of his faithfulness. Whatever happened in the past, you were a different person and they were different guys. When you go off to Africa for your wonderful trip, are you going to spend that time wondering and worrying about what he's doing? If you can trust him for 2 1/2 months, give him the benefit of the doubt for a weekend. Have faith in yourself that you are worth it. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.