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I know how you feel, because the similar situation put strain on my realtionship and was a factor in it ending. And it ended up that she did like him and wanted to be with him. Don't hate yourself for being jealous and possesive, he is putting you in a situation where you can do almost nothing but act that way. But in all honesty if he goes or not the damage has been done, he already wants to go and already doesnt understand why you cant be comfortable with it, and still wants to go. It doesnt really matter now if he goes or not. So I say let him go. Leave the decision up to him, and if he doesn't act how you think is appropriate then you will have some issues to settle. You are already hurt, keeping him from going when he wants to go will not make you feel any better, your trust in him has already been shaken, tell him that, and see if he doesnt try and make it up to you.
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Here are some phrases I'd like to be able to say, in all honesty, before I die.
"That's it, send out the ninjas!"
"So then I had to kill my way to the second floor."
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