(vote: yeah, you cheated. more from the emotional standpoint than the physical one. but you know that already.)
In terms of cheating... I have to agree with 'ribs. There are a LOT of reasons people make mistakes. I think it's a mistake to write someone off immediately without knowing the whys of it. Sometimes, a person is just unable to commit, or they are looking for a way out of the relationship, etc. But not always. Sometimes, it's a "cry for help". It's acting out. It's not about the other person. I think any extreme in a relationship is going to be unfair to someone, and probably everyone.
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