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Originally Posted by crow_daw
I have never bought, and will never buy, this argument. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and I'm glad you can accept a philosophy such as that. To me, once you're a cheater, you're always a cheater. I am an extremist on this topic. It's all or nothing at all with me. I do not tolerate cheating in any shape or form. And it's not a question of possession of a person. To me sex is something special you share with your SO, and no one else. Affection should not be treated so lightly, unless both parties are in agreement on the issue.
OK, sorry for the attempted threadjacking there.
Onto the topic at hand, I agree with the majority of posters. It was absolutely cheating, and you absolutely have to tell her. And you absolutely should not be together anymore.
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If I use your logic, if my wife
ever went out and spent too much money, she will forever after be a spendthrift, and we should not be together anymore.
Personally, I accept that my wife has flaws, and she accepts that I have them as well.
My philosophy is that no one is going to be the perfect mate, and the best you can hope for is that they try, and sincerely regret when they make a mistake.
Which doesn't seem to be the case here. It would be tough to be married to a cheater, OR to a person who'll end everything if you fall short of perfection.