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Originally Posted by TM875
Personally I HATE the "once he cheated he's gone" feelings. That's complete ridiculousness. If you loved a person (as much as many of you girls/guys claim), then why would one slight indiscretion turn you against them?
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I have never bought, and will never buy, this argument. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and I'm glad you can accept a philosophy such as that. To me, once you're a cheater, you're always a cheater. I am an extremist on this topic. It's all or nothing at all with me. I do not tolerate cheating in any shape or form. And it's not a question of possession of a person. To me sex is something special you share with your SO, and no one else. Affection should not be treated so lightly, unless both parties are in agreement on the issue.
OK, sorry for the attempted threadjacking there.
Onto the topic at hand, I agree with the majority of posters. It was absolutely cheating, and you absolutely have to tell her. And you absolutely should not be together anymore.