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Originally Posted by Redlemon
Think of this: she's probably going to mess him up at some time as well. You have inflicted her on him. Think of that as your revenge.
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Totally awesome way to look at it.
I want to beat the shit out of my ex's fiancee (she got engaged with him after a week).. and i mean like totally destroy him and i can't wait to see her ruin her life and his. But that's just the bitter side in me talking and no it won't solve things really. It'll make me look like a petty bastard and her and her new toy look a whole the victims.
How do I deal with my ex and her tomfoolery? (She's really quite spiteful about everything and lets the whole world know about it) I've got my music and guitar, and i've got a great network of friends who i love and respect.. I've got the band, work and uni to worry about too. Just ignore her shite and focus on what you've got man. At the same time, vent out that anger and those violent urges through excercise, video games, sport, anything physical, hell if a good ol wank'll help you out i say go for it. You were in a long distance relationship, so i'm sure you would've had an entire life that didn't revolve around her, so embrace that fact.
There's nothing wrong in having those violent thoughts and don't let those who think they have a higher moral standing than you make you think otherwise. For me, it's less about morals and more about productivity, character building and dealing with it in the most beneficial way to me in the long run.
Ignore the smoke and smile.