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Cagney · 05-21-2005, 09:53 PM

I don't know about all that stuff about calculating how many times to call and whatever, but there are as many ways to get girls as there are girls in the world so I am sure it works in some cases.

I have been pretty successful with two ways of meeting girls. 1 is that I used to move about once every year or two years, and I always find someone on a *pay* roommate finder. Never a person I already know. And find a person who seems likeable or social, and seems to have a lot of friends. Plus you can get pointers from watching him. Then your friend group and his will meet and hopefully the circle will grow. Nowadays girls don't go out as much it seems, and mutual friends always seems to be a good technique. Strategy 2 involves working at a company with at least a hundred people, or in some kind of social interacting job. I enjoyed working at blockbuster a few years ago. You might be too close at work to date, but sometimes not, and you will meet plenty of people and they all know at least a few girls.

As far as what to talk about, I have never been good at preparing something to say or figuring out what a girl wants to hear. I just be honest with them and talk about whatever is going on and joke around a little. Keeping it light. The one lesson that I think is true enough for every man to at least consider is the "Up Periscope" theory. If a guy looks like he's "on the prowl" with his periscope up looking around, girls notice and have an aversion to that. I believe girls are more comfortable talking with a guy who feels that it's no big deal talking to her, and they're not just out trying to pick up chicks.

I think the bottom line is that girls are just like us - with similar fears, hopes, insecurities... But sometimes their beauty and our cravings make it seem like it's a bigger deal than it is. Treating girls like regular people has always worked.

Oh, and another thing I've learned is that it seems girls wish to be appreciated for what they have accomplished and what they do, rather than the fact that they happened to be born pretty. A compliment on their choices or their style goes further than just complimenting them on how pretty you think they are.

I would recommend relax, be yourself, and be considerate. Oh and take care of yourself. Go to Marshall's, get a nice shirt and iron the mothafucka. Not because women only go for clean hair and pressed shirts - but because everyone knows that if you care about yourself and your appearance, it shows that you can care for someone else.

If all else fails, work your ass off and make a lot of money. There are a lot of girls who like money. Girls don't chase Donald Trump because of his sexy haircut.

05-21-2005, 09:53 PM	#453 (permalink)
Cagney Crazy	I don't know about all that stuff about calculating how many times to call and whatever, but there are as many ways to get girls as there are girls in the world so I am sure it works in some cases. I have been pretty successful with two ways of meeting girls. 1 is that I used to move about once every year or two years, and I always find someone on a pay roommate finder. Never a person I already know. And find a person who seems likeable or social, and seems to have a lot of friends. Plus you can get pointers from watching him. Then your friend group and his will meet and hopefully the circle will grow. Nowadays girls don't go out as much it seems, and mutual friends always seems to be a good technique. Strategy 2 involves working at a company with at least a hundred people, or in some kind of social interacting job. I enjoyed working at blockbuster a few years ago. You might be too close at work to date, but sometimes not, and you will meet plenty of people and they all know at least a few girls. As far as what to talk about, I have never been good at preparing something to say or figuring out what a girl wants to hear. I just be honest with them and talk about whatever is going on and joke around a little. Keeping it light. The one lesson that I think is true enough for every man to at least consider is the "Up Periscope" theory. If a guy looks like he's "on the prowl" with his periscope up looking around, girls notice and have an aversion to that. I believe girls are more comfortable talking with a guy who feels that it's no big deal talking to her, and they're not just out trying to pick up chicks. I think the bottom line is that girls are just like us - with similar fears, hopes, insecurities... But sometimes their beauty and our cravings make it seem like it's a bigger deal than it is. Treating girls like regular people has always worked. Oh, and another thing I've learned is that it seems girls wish to be appreciated for what they have accomplished and what they do, rather than the fact that they happened to be born pretty. A compliment on their choices or their style goes further than just complimenting them on how pretty you think they are. I would recommend relax, be yourself, and be considerate. Oh and take care of yourself. Go to Marshall's, get a nice shirt and iron the mothafucka. Not because women only go for clean hair and pressed shirts - but because everyone knows that if you care about yourself and your appearance, it shows that you can care for someone else. If all else fails, work your ass off and make a lot of money. There are a lot of girls who like money. Girls don't chase Donald Trump because of his sexy haircut.