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Originally Posted by Robaggio
Wait, I'm confused. He was just showing a good friend an example of more "kinky" things. There was no sex involved? What's the problem?
If he was showing one of his male buddies would this be a problem?
Does it make a difference if he liked it or not?
I think you guys are jumping to "cheating" a bit too quickly here. This is a good friend of his. Don't get me wrong, he should definatly tell his SO what happened. But at the same time I don't see this as "cheating" in the sense as what you guys are making it out to be.
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then he should have no problem going and telling his g/f ALL about it, and he wouldnt have had to ask US if it was considered cheating.
oh and just so my vote is counted, yes its cheating.....if you have to figure out whether or not you should hide it from your S/O its cheating plain and simple, it doesnt matter if intercourse itself didnt take place, And yes, if he'd tied up one of his male buddies in only his underwear and massaged him and admitted it turned him on more than being with his g/f it would still be considered cheating....gender makes no difference when it comes to hiding things from the person you call your g/f