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Originally Posted by Robaggio
Wait, I'm confused. He was just showing a good friend an example of more "kinky" things. There was no sex involved? What's the problem?
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Come off it.
Sex doesn't just have to be sticking your dick in someone, or letting them stick it in you. Sex is about intimacy.
A line of intimacy was crossed here, in my view, and that is a definite betrayal of the one the OP calls his girlfriend. Personally, I don't think he should have even got into the territory of discussing sex with her, but whatever. I would have closed the discussion down round about the point that she mentioned the sex with her ex-bf had got quite bland. That's none of my business. It looks to me like the OP seized an opportunity right there to open her up.
Perhaps sitting down and looking at some websites or books about bondage, etc, that provide a jumping-off point for her own exploration of these things could be described as 'showing a good friend an example of more "kinky" things'. Tying her up in her nightgown and massaging her body is not an example of that. That is quite blatantly sexualised behaviour, and if you're in a monogamous relationship, convention states that such a relationship is where such behaviour should stay.
You cheated, and in my book, cheating sucks.