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Originally Posted by MEAD
The point was to just give the guy who complicated my life and made me question my own worth a swift kick in the ass for doing so and send him on his way.
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MEAD, for peace of mind in your situation you could look at why you allowed his actions and possible opinions to weigh so heavily on your self worth. Why have you taken this to heart? Why do you allow his actions to affect you in such a personal way? You allowed him the power to question
your self worth.
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Originally Posted by abaya
...seems like you're keeping her on a victim-pedestal
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You also need to see that your ex g/f needs to take a bit of responsibility here as well. You need to give her her responsibility in the matter so you can deal with the hurt she has inflicted.. then hopefully you will see that she has issues, and possibly you will see this and decide that perhaps you didn't/don't need these in your life, so you can move on to find 'something better'..
By giving your ex some of the weight in this situation will also relieve some of the feelings you have in regard to this fellow.. and perhaps you wont direct all your frustrations at him and feel the agression you currently hold.
I hope this helps somewhat..