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Originally Posted by Lead543
I'm going to say a little something if you choose not to tell her.
She WILL find out.
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Pretty much anything that's ever been kept from me in a relationship has come spilling out and some point, be it recently after it happened or years later.
Not being told by the perpetrator of the hurt justs adds to the pain --- you not only know that you were messed around, but you knew that other people knew (even if it's only the people directly involved, but honestly, it's usually way more than that --- usually people you saw day after day) and that's embarassing on top of everything else.
So, don't make an ass out of her. Tell her.
Because not telling is, despite how anyone else wants to justify it, the most convenient for YOU. And that isn't fair.