Okay, maybe I'm the only one here who's willing to be honest about dishonesty...but are you kidding me?
Personally, there's no way in HELL I'd want to know about my girlfriend doing something like this. Perhaps I prefer to live in dilusional happy-land, but what I don't know can't hurt me that much.
Maybe you were cheating, maybe you weren't - it depends on the confines of the relationship. I've been with girls that got pissed if I so much as looked at another female (those relationships didn't last long). The girl that I was happiest with was one in which we had a very open relationship. As described above wasn't "cheating", inasmuch as the conductor was not in (romantic) love with the conductee. More than that, I personally wouldn't want to know about (or would actually be turned-on by) the actions that occurred.
My rule has always been that, as long as you're only thinking about me when you're with me, that's good enough.
Unless I marry you.
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