| Yeah, I'd have to say both your ex and the guy have parts to play here... seems like you're keeping her on a victim-pedestal, and that means you ain't over her yet.  She's immature, so is he... be the mature one and move on with as cool of a heart as possible. 
				__________________And think not you can direct the course of Love;
 for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
 --Khalil Gibran
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