Yeah, I'd have to say both your ex and the guy have parts to play here... seems like you're keeping her on a victim-pedestal, and that means you ain't over her yet. She's immature, so is he... be the mature one and move on with as cool of a heart as possible.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
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