Why this constant desire to "settle" with him in a confrontational manner? What about just ignoring them both and working on letting go, and I mean REALLY letting go, to the point where you stop putting so much energy into him?
In situations like this, closure never happens when you want it to... it just takes its own sweet time, regardless of any attempts to "settle" things.
Seriously, man, don't waste any more of your life on a loser. Invest it in your own quality of life... go out and find a new girl instead of seething.
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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