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Oh wow.
Here's what I think.
She's afraid you'll cheat on her so she tells you what to do. You listen because you're afraid to lose her and be alone forever.
She's not ready to commit but she's too insecure to be without a boyfriend. She's young, insecure, wants someone to love her but still wants her freedom. You two seem to have poor communication skills, which is vital in making ld relationships work (just ask the majority of TFPer's who are in commited ld relationships). She's irresponsible which is why she went and blazed with someone who attempted to rape her.
From the sounds of it neither one of you are ready to even think about marriage. She doesn't seem to have the proper judgement to take care of herself how is she going to commit fully to someone else through marriage? You're young, there's plenty of girls out there. If you're still stuck on her I'd strongly advise therapy to both of you, the last thing you want is to be divorced at age 22.
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