"Disprespected" and "irresponsible with people's emotions" are both interpretations. Do you even know what actually happened?
If it's, "He said I was never right for her," well then you might have to face that maybe he was right. The distance, the emotional difficulties... Maybe you never were right for her! But turn that into "disrepecting" you, and suddenly you put your dukes up. This is just an example, that I made up because you've only given us your interpretation, not the actual facts.
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