Lets think this through for a sec. you may hit him, and walk away and that may be the end of it. However more likely is the possibility that you hit him, and walk away, he calls the police and you end up convicted of assault. Then you get to go to jail for a couple days, pay a fine of a few hundred dollars and have a criminal record. Lets say in the process of hitting him you get in a lucky punch and break a bone. Then not only do you have the jail time to think about then you get to pay for his medical expenses, time he loses from work, and punitive damages. fast forward 15 years you are interviewing for a good job, one that pays very well, and has excellent benefits, possibly the job you would spend the rest of your working life doing. You have the job, pending the results of a criminal background check, tell me is it really worth it? Is it worth hitting this guy who actually did you a favor by showing you that this girl was not worthy of the trust you placed in her? She had the opportunity to say to no to him, She chose him over you, I know it sucks, but he was there and you weren't and she decided she'd rather be with him. She knew damn good and well what she was doing, and if she hadn't cheated with him, she would have with someone else.
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