You know, I'm a woman but I have some violent tendencies. I had VERY strong desires to punch my ex square in the nose and call him bastard, then slap his new gf right across her face and call her bitch, then walk away and never speak to them again. It took some serious self-control to stop myself from doing this, multiple times.
Of course, that was 6 years ago and I don't know what it would have proved if I had done it. I guess we needed some kind of Fight Club. My question is, is there any benefit to you expressing your feelings towards him? I mean, communication is one thing, but... I dunno, it sounds like you need to set up a punching bag and glue his face to it instead. Violence doesn't solve much in the long run, especially if it's not in self-defense.
Are you really over this??
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