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Originally Posted by abaya
Does he say anything during sex? How does he turn you on? Does he make noises, or anything that expresses his desire for you, for your body?
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He says nothing during sex. Ever. I have never received anything remotely resembling a compliment from him in regards to my body, naked or otherwise. He moans when I touch him, and that's about it.
To cellophanedeity: I have never been one to windowshop, people-wise. I don't ogle or "check out" people, because love for me is an emotional attachment and I just don't get turned on from looks alone. And no, I don't think anyone is better looking than my fiance, because I'm in love with him and that makes him the most gorgeous thing I have ever seen. So I can't relate in any way.
To maleficent, who asked why am I allowing myself to be treated this way: How am I allowing it? I've talked to him about it several times. I'm certainly not going to break up with him because of this; he's great in every other department. I'm all for taking a hard line on poor treatment, but like I've said twice now, this is not a make-or-break issue.
It isn't a huge deal. Like I said, I wanted feedback. Or to know if anyone had any experience that could help. For those of you who are still suggesting communication or talking to him about it,
I've already talked to him about it, a couple times, and it has not helped. I don't mean just mentioning it in passing, but rather in-depth conversations.
Counselling is not an option right now, financially speaking.