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well as of right now i am 21 and i am in a relationship with an older women. she is 29 years old. she has a 4 year old son and we all get along really great!! she is great. given we are in different parts of our lives and she is moving and she wants me to go with her and i am really thinking about it. she is very mature and so am i. ( unlike most of the girls my age around here. all they want to do is party !!! )
she makes me happy, and i give her the emotional support that she deserves seeing as none of the scumbags that dated her before would give her. and this girl is very beautiful also and she is well off financially, so she is a very happy go lucky type of woman. we get along great! we have never argued about anything. we talk and lay all issues on the table.. and we just had a conversation last night about the big L word.
its weird. she makes me feel great!! and i ahve only known her for about 7 months.
this girl is great and she is one of the best people that i have met in my life. she teaches me things that she has been through. i think im very smart about life and goals and such but she comes and brings it to me in a whole different perspective.
sorry for the rant..
but if you feel that the people around you will effect the way things in your relationship are handled.. then i think you better rethink what you are about to do.
i mean in our situation we dont care what people think, seeing as they will not be big parts of our lives. and we do only live once and we make eachother happy, so i dont see the big problem.
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