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Originally Posted by ~Lucian~
For sure. and that's exactly what i've been doing for the last almost 2 years now. Butyea, if you knew the relationship I came out of, she's already made me do all of the above several times, and i've felt every emotion under the sun with her. So for me, i don't really find it tough confronting her at all and always attempt to call her to get the bad news out of her. The one thing i can say out of all this is that, i've definitely gone through major character building and even if I can't get these final words out with her for a while, I feel I've gained a lot already. As I said, her loss. Not mine.
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Well then, good for you! I mean these situations can be very difficult, but you are still doing better than what MOST people do; most people settle. They worry about finding someone else, they worry about being alone, they second guess their relationship needs and hope / wish that things will get better. After it is over, be sure to take inventory. I mean this may seem silly, but think about all the aspects of the relationship and write them down. If you look at what was positive and negative - no matter how small or silly, it can help you make smart decitions in the future.