I work in an office of about 70 people, only a handful of them are men. In the beginning, I noticed alot of people gossiping and I went along with it, I really wanted to fit in. I started feeling guilty about it, because most of the gossip was bad. I think the word "gossip" has a bad implication to it anyway, is there ever good gossip? There might be, but not here. So I stopped gossiping. Of course, now I don't talk to many of the people here, but I'd rather not talk then talk bad about someone without knowing all the real details. I hope I am making sense here. It is time for another cup of coffee.
I think what I was trying to say is that maybe women gossip to fit in. That is just an observation from my personal experience.
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