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No Kids for us :)
My husband and i would be perfect canidates to have children.
We're very stable financially, our relationship is strong, we have supportive family and friends around us, which would provide a close network for a child if we were to have one.
But, we don't want kids, period.
We both look at children and see how adorable they are, and how much joy they bring, but we enjoy handing them back to their parents at the end of the day. Neither one of us has an urge to raise a child. My husband's side of the family has a genetic disease that could be passed onto our children if we ever did have any, so we choose for him to get a vasectomy. That was five years ago and we've never had a second thought.
I think that some people just aren't into the "kid route" . . . i respect those who are though.
When we think about our future together, we see travel, being active in our community, time to just be together the two of us. We don't see changing diapers, soccer sundays or sending the kids to college . . .
Maybe it's because we've seen happy couple after happy couple turn to hating each other and being eaten alive by stress and it's turned us completely off children, but then again, neither my husband or I from a young age wanted to be parents.
So yeah, we're looking forward to being an aunt and uncle . . . but not mom and dad. I don't ever see us changing our minds on that.
Sweet Pea
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