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You keep saying over and over that this isn't that big of a deal, and then you keep posting and saying how annoying/hurtful/much of an issue(within yourself, at least) it is. Anything that bugs you after two years will annoy the hell out of you after ten. And yes, you two have a lot of sex now, but how will you feel once the sex goes away and he still doesn't compliment you? Or when you have kids and he doesn't compliment you? Part of marriage is loving and respecting each other throughout the marriage, droopy breasts and strech marks and Viagra and all. You really need to communicate with your fiancee about this, and I don't mean just reminding him to compliment you and him then forgetting. Have you thought about premarital counseling? Not only will it help you two overcome this difference, but it will prepare you for what being married will be like, which is something everyone can use.
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