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It's sick and sad to some, but I'm in my 20s and have had a conversation with my fiance that boils down to the following:
If I EVER stop putting out for any reason, all he needs to do is come to me and say, "I'm becoming sexually frustrated." I will buy him a call girl, a nice one. When it comes down to it, his happiness is very important to me because he's my best friend first and my lover second and sex is very key to happiness. If for this reason if I'm unable or unwilling to put out, all he need do is tell me that he's getting sick of using his hand. What I do ask is that he tell me, because I'm a somewhat oblivious person and I've ended up blowing off his advances before. If it reaches that point, I want to know, and I'd like to talk about it but in the end, I'll buy him a hooker if it will make him happy.
Of course, not many people have the strange love that we do, so obviously our solution isn't fit for all. But cheating... it's hard to say if it's black and white mala in se or simply mala prohibita, and I don't think there is a satisfactory answer.
I wish the best of luck to you danbiles, luck that takes whatever form you need it to.
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