I wouldn't really worry about the degradation issue. As you've presented the situation, it seems that SHE would be the one WANTING to suck you. It feels to me that it would only be degrading if you were forcing her to do it, and that is obviously not the case. The main thing to do, as has been already stated, is RELAX. Tension is usually not beneficial for the intimate arts.
Like several of the above replies have stated, from the point of view of the giver, it's amazingly satisfying to hold that power over someone. I absolutely love getting between the legs of my girlfriend and licking and teasing while her hips squirm.
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