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Is there any basis for her belief that you would buy things that you wanted? Currently, do you not decide on most purchases together? If you are then the logical notion of pooled cash and mutually agreed upon purchases wouldn't be an unordinary request. However, if you have been making purchasing decisions without her input, maybe a good aproach would be to shift into a more mutually involved method for financial decision making.
It does sound like there is more at play here than just the financial thing, but it seems like she would need at least some reason to come up with those beliefs.
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