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Old 05-17-2005, 12:37 PM   #56 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by sportswidow05
Not having any religious upbringing caused me a lot of confusion as I got older, especially when I got married and had children, and was finally exposed to a religion because of his family. I just don't want her to feel the same way.
Yeah, that's understandable. Though it makes me wonder, what was it about his family that made you feel confused, or uncomfortable? Could they be accepting of your non-religious background? This is my question of interfaith marriages (or faith/non-faith). It seems that many people end up switching over to whatever system their spouse is on... either religious or not, etc. Is this mostly for the kids? Are there any examples of TFP'ers who maintain distinctive belief systems, apart from their spouses? What do you tell your children, as they grow up?
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