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Oh I have told her how much that hurts to her that her money is her money. She says the amount of "hard" work that I do, doesn't equal the "hard" work that she would put into a job.
I'm in the IT business and yes there are times were I can slack off on the job. But when it's crunch time, or if something goes down. I'm there 100% getting it fixed. She was in sales, so she didn't have that much time for slacking off. She was on her toes all the time. Even after hours. She doesn't think my after/off hour checking of the server to make sure things are running is not "hard" work.
She also says that everything she buys is for "us". Every thing I buy is for "myself"...
So that is why she feels that her money is really "her" money.
Again I smell BS.
Some times I think that she is doing this to piss me off. Maybe she wants to leave me , but how stupid will that look to her family and friends. She left a life where the husband worked, she didn't, and the husband didn't make her a domestic engineer?
Maybe she is doing/saying things like this so that I would get so pissed, and I would be the one to leave.
To be honest, I don't think she even knows what she wants to do.
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