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I don't think I am that out of line, I wouldn't even say I was being an asshole here.
"I'm 19, and personally, I think I know quite a bit." of course you do, everyone does.
When I was 18 I thought I knew quite a bit, now I have 4 years of College down and I know how littel I knew then. When I am 30 I will laugh at how little I knew when I was 21. But college ages people fast, the diffrence between first and second year students is HUGE.
I maybe saying things a bit harsh, but that is how they are, sugar coding and making a pity party aren't going to help anyone.
Just saying "move on" with a smile.. doesn't help. The best thing is to hear many types of advice and get a idea of how people think. In this case I gave him the harder advice no one else did.
I think HalcyonDaze is right on the money, and I kind of hinted to that in my post.
Prefect you don't know how much your life sucks with that girl now, but you will see soon. And say "thank god we broke up, I didn't know how it was."
You should take this time to do things for you. Don't just get a new girl to replace the old one, and end up with this all happening again later.
Do stuff for you, martial arts, sports, photography club, whatever. You will find when you have plenty of friends, you will not be so dependent on a girlfriend.
I have a feeling that is part of the problem you and her had. Maybe you saw each other so much, it made her tired.
Anyway, you are home from school for the summer... that is the worst time for this to happen. Get a job, start hitting the gym, and get ready for next semester.
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