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I'm sorry if I came accross as abrasive.
This has happened to me, and has happened to almost all of my best friends. I know the reasons why they do it (usually I'm friends with the girl and the guy.. so I know exactly what's going on), and I know how it ends.
It never ends well, the "taking a break" is their language for losing interest in you. It's usually coupled with the "I love you but not in love with you" speech... be glad she didnt drop that on you. She lost interest in you a couple months ago when she stopped getting in the mood. Either she got bored, or you did something wrong that she didnt tell you and sulked about it till it grew so big she couldnt deal. Then this was coupled with Mr. New walking in. She's interested in him, not you. Anyone who drops their longterm boyfriend with someone who just walks in... then expects you to understand does not deserve you.
As I said, this is her way of dropping you while pretending she's still nice, and she convinced you of it. DO NOT move in together, my best friend from HS did this after graduation... he thought they'd get back together... she ended up screwing this new guy in his own bed while he slept on a futon in the living room. I know she means a lot to you but you need to realize this is not your fault, and you dnot need to be with a girl who pulls something like this.
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