Ralli, absolutely not! You are who you are. Accepting and loving yourself just the way you are is what is important. I truly did not get into the whole "porn" thing until my late 20's. Then I married a judgemental man who said I was oversexed. Guilt kept me from exploring more until after the divorce. Lebell has helped me to totally accept and love myself. Part of loving myself is enjoying the way my body responds to various kinds of porn and noting how it doesn't respond at all to some. Just enjoy who you are and don't try to be like everyone else. That is what matters most. 
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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