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It seems to situation is a bit more complicated than I first thought when I read your post. Clearly you don't want to leave her for good, but the same time you realize that's the right thing to do. So, what about giving her an ultimatum? As just about everyone above me said; to be put on hold barely works in telephone conversations, so it definatly doesn't work in relationships.
I would also confront her with the fact that she really hurt you. Either she doesn't know how much she hurt you by cheating on you or she's extremely self-centered. Probably a mix of the two. Even if you're hurt, be mad at her. You've got a right too. Don't do the big mistake that so many people do and blame yourself for her treating you badly.
Relationship or not, it seems that you're a bit too attached to this girl. College has tons of social activities, so join up and make some new friends. If you're not the "type", pretend that you are and you'll be the type before you know what the hell happend.
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