Originally Posted by Daniel_

When I was at college my GF (after three years together) screwed my flatmate.

For three months.

Behind my back.

We split. I got depressed, got laid, cheered up.

She split from my flatmate and we got back together. Another 5 years later we married, and after 5 years of mariage had a daughter.

So that's my success story.

Sadly just after our eighth wedding anniversary my wife gave me a case of thrush and told me that she was screwing a guy she met online.

So it wasn't that perfect a success.

This time I did what I should have done when we were 20. I kicked her out, and met the woman I wish I'd been with for all those years.

I guess the point of my post is that nobody can tell you how to be, but you. In the end every life ends in death and failure, but it's the JOURNEY that matters. Live your own life in the best way you can, and if your own pride requires you to take her back after she's fucked another guy for kicks, then do it, and be happy that you did.

If you really want to be cynical, call her up and tell her about the great chick you met at a night club. If she freaks, then you'll know that she wanted to screw another guy, but didn't want you to get laid.

It's got to work both ways or it's not equitable.