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A scenario to consider:
Girl: Hi honey. I know we have been dating for a while now and I really really love you, but... well I kinda want to fuck this other dude.
Boy: Uhh, well I suppose that would be OK. So long as you still love me... and once you get bored with him you'll come back to me right? How long will that take?
Girl:Ummm, I dunno a month maybe.
Boy:Sounds good to me. I just got a new game for my X-box anyway. Have fun! Love you...
Call me a pessimist, but I just don't see it working. I understand that you are afraid of losing her if you make a big noise over her starting to see other people .. however. Once she starts seeing other people I don't see it ending.
You don't own her and can't tell her what to do, nevertheless you can make your position clear. While putting your foot down might very well push her away if it was me, I'd rather be able to say "I tried" as opposed to "I shoulda done something."
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