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		 take my nephew as a case in point:   he gets an allowance from his dad,  which is very big  because he handles the household bills too.  He lies to his dad about where he spends his allowance,  a lot of it going into his pocket.  But at work he is one of the high performers,  and gets excellent reviews.  Plus he does a good job about managing the household bills.    
 
I know he is lying, but I also know he is doing a good job. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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