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Originally Posted by BigBen931
As far as state law, we don't have that in Canada. I love the TFP, but the legal advice does not help waaaay up here.
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I am truly sorry to read about this in your life. My wife of 17 years has a "1 strike & you're out" mindset. If I fooled around on her and she found out, I'm out. Whether or not it was for good would depend on her ability to forgive me. I doubt however I'd ever regain her trust again. The main question to you is whether or not you can forgive & move ahead? The other point; get qualified legal advice. At least find out what is in front of you should you be unable to get past this.
Lastly, why should you pack up & go anywhere? At least that was what it seemed to indicate you were planning. Were my wife to do this to me, well before we hit the counseling stage she'd find all her stuff curbside in dark green garbage bags. I'm not saying I'd want to stay in the place we shared either, but neither would she. Petty, I know but magnanimous considering the circumstances. You could pour oil-based paint into each of the bags rather than leave them for her retrieval.
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