first off -- have a drink and relax- you seem a little stressed out about this now... you are going to implode way before the wedding... Relax....
Deep Breath...
Some things you want to decide
what kind of wedding to you want? Formal, Casual, Garden Party, Sitdown dinner, Cocktails and hors d'ourves (that'd be my choice) Evening or daytime.
Now, where I live 6 months would be really tight in booking a place for the reception whehter it be a hotel, a banquet facility, or the foreigh legion hall-- they all just fill up quickly. So, I'd start looking for where you want to have it-- Where you want to have it may depend on what type of wedding you want to have.
Who's coming to the wedding? Do you have big families, tons of friends -- that would all be crushed if not invited, or do you have a small group of friends and family. The answer to questions above, may be dependent on this.
Get yourself a notebook -- so that everything is in one place, and start jotting down guest lists and places you want to have your wedding.
Who's in your wedding party and how big will that be? Will all her sisters be brides maids? What about close girlfriends? Are there enough groomsmen to match up?
Church wedding (that also will need to get booked fairly soon, they also book up pretty quickly, and depending on your religion, you might have to go thru some marriage classes (Pre-Cana in the Catholic Church)
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