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You are going through exactly what I went through 2 years ago.
DO NOT MOVE OUT
If the law where you are is anything like it is in the UK, KEEP THE HOUSE. She cheated, she must pay.
If you walk away now, you have already given it up - do not put her in a possition where she has all the cards.
If you end up in court she's gonna be allowed to keep it all, and all you get is some cash, and if it doesn't end up in court you got the house already.
She can sleep in the spare room - hell, she can sleep with the stud from work if she must - but she certainly shouldn't sleep in the bed that you are paying for.
Look after yourself - she's already shown that she's looking after herself, not you - emulate her.
Be safe, and if you MUST smash stuff - go out into the yard and bash crockery wiith a hammer. Shouting at her will get you in crap with the law faster than anything except belting her in the head.
Thoughts go with you.
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