Wow - my first post here.
Been there, done that, bought the teeshirt.
It took me a year to realise just how dumb it was to be doing that sort of thing for my ex- ; especially when it was her that ended it by going off with another guy (who she met on-line) after we'd been together for 17years, and married for 9.
It took a good woman to make me realise how dumb I was being - it looks like its a realisation you've come to on your own, so well done.
It's tough to decide to let her be, you've got to draw the line somewhere. I mean, otherwise you'll be helping her pick out new lingerie for her hot dates, and looking after the kids while she gets laid by strangers - that's rough.
Good luck, and stay strong.
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