congrats on the engagement!!!
I cant be a lot of help on some things since you're in another country but I use this site for keeping up with some things
http://www.ezweddingplanner.com/
I also have a planner book and am part of a wedding message board (it has guys on it too) so if you're interested PM me and I'll give you the URL. It will give you some great ideas on things.
Just keep in mind, anything you can do yourself is worth it. Anything with the word "wedding" in it is marked up 700%
