Originally Posted by alansmithee

Thinking back, it was probably in 3rd grade, 6 yrs old or so when I started having anything that could be described as attraction for women. And as for choosing to be attracted to men, I didn't even know it was possible until probably 6th or 7th grade.

And as for saying that I can unequivocally choose to be attracted to men, I can't say that at the time. But I also can't rule out the possibility in the future.

I covered most of this above, but i'll try for another example. As I've said before, I currently am not attracted to men, but that doesn't eliminate the possibility for the future. I also currently have no intrest in many fetishistic behaviors, but that doesn't mean that I won't like those in the future if I chose to try those either.