I've found that sex gets better as the years go by. In my case, when my wife and I first got married, she was pretty much a missionary type of gal who always expected me to do all the work. Now, almost 9 years later, she loves to have sex doggystyle, use toys, she's tried to get me to bring home some porn and she reads playboy with a slight grin on her face when she gets to the centerfolds. I once asked her the reason why she's starting to let loose and she said that as you get older, you get more comfortable with sex. Fine by me, I said. So yeah, I'd agree with it gets better as time goes on. You get more and more comfortable with the person you're with and you really get to know their wants and needs and you're better able to satisfy them. The trick is to just spice things up a little every once in a while.
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