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Originally Posted by chickentribs
Sex with somebody new is always exciting and a bit of an adventure. However, that is very different than cheating. The idea that lying and hurting somebody else (the specific "cheating" part) is what would make sex better is a bit creepy.
Lots of great ways to be "forbidden" or "bad" without having to include an innocent person's trust and feelings into the mix I would think.
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This is about how I feel about cheating, although I have my doubts that things are that simple.
I wonder how the risk factor plays into all this... I imagine if the assumed risk of getting caught (in the act or afterwards) were high, some people would be even more reluctant to cheat... while it would give others an even bigger thrill. And on the other side, if the assumed risk of having the cheated find out is low... would that make people more likely to go through with it? Or then there's those that don't factor in risk at all... which are most likely the chronic cheaters.
Maybe I should make another poll... hmm.