Slightly relevant observation to this thread:
I have 4 committed gay couples in my life: friends,neighbors,coworkers and family. However, all four of the couples are male. So, I actually find it strange that all of the bi/bi-curious/lesbian women I know are on the internet and all the gay men I know are in real life!
In a poor attempt to tie that back to this thread, I propose that there might not be as many bi/bi-curious/lesbian women on TFP as we think. Perhaps, some use it as a means of getting attention on the board. Not, that there is anything wrong with that because exploring sexuality, even if it is only something you do in your mind, is what this place is about!
Also, there is a lot more content here for straight men and lesbian women. I haven't really seen that much content geared towards gay men. Could that be why?