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I like being both wanted and needed.
I prefer wanted for all of the reasons that everyone here has said. One of my closer friends always comes to me and tells me that he wants to talk if he has a problem, and I love that he comes to me. The same goes for my Love. Whenever he's upset or sick or something like that I enjoy it when he comes to me. When people have other choices, and they still come to me for help first, it gives you a warm fuzzy feeling. And who doens't like warm fuzzies?
I also like being needed though. That's why I volunteer at the sexual education centre at school. When people just want to talk to anyone who knows something, or just wants a neutral anonymous conversation to help them sort out things. It feels good to help.
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