generally, no I don't like to be needed.
it depends tho. needed on a more intellectual basis is easier for me than needed on an emotional basis.
I am a really independent sort, and I have a hard time dealing with those who are notiseably dependant.
and i am really not a caretaker type.
so in those cases, being needed can tend to drive me insane.
feeling useful, and perhaps even a necessary part of something, on the other hand, does usually make me feel more worth/value.
eh, i guess it just depends on the situation.
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